Topic 10.9. Relationships

RELATIONSHIPS

When Your Thoughts Control You

You repel people who love you truly

You feel that you will never find true respect, nurturing or love. Not only that, even if you do find the ‘right’ person, your thoughts will manifest as doubt, fear, shame and guilt which pushes people away.

You tend to attract unsuitable people or unfullfilling relationships

You become a self-fulfilling prophecy of misery. Even if you leave a bad relationship, what you hate about it, will manifest itself in a new set of circumstances again, and the vicious cycle continues on and on.

Power struggles abound in your relationships

It’s always about expecting the other to give, because you keep thinking the other is taking more (even though your energy makes you the bigger ‘taker’).

When You Control Your Thoughts

You find true, productive and respectful relationships, and you get it right the first time

Who said that you need to keep changing partners until you get it right? With a mindset of abundance and allowing true relationships into your life, you can be sure to get it right the first time!

Your love for another is built upon mutual respect and true love

You attract the right mate and you love him/her not because you need your love but because want your true love. You also manifest a fulfilling life, because your vibrations are aligned with beneficial values.

You and your partner give to each other from a place of abundance

It is no longer about give and take but about giving and receiving freely. You and your partner are loving and generous to each other and the upward spiral of love and joy, brings each one of you higher and better!

What this means to your Relationships

Having strong, productive relationships and the ability to get along well with others, is of crucial importance to experience a strong level of success in your life.

Have many rewarding, close and loving relationships.

Make your life gossip-free.

Make friends willingly, with people who really enhance your spirit, not those who drain your energy. It will only be a matter of time before you find true friends. If you are already in a relationship, you will start to enjoy your partner, similar to the way you did when you just met them for the first time.